Stephen, my husband, was my guardian when I was a child, but he had a much bigger impact on my life than that. After my mother died when I was ten years old, he was the person I could always count on. Our house had a sad and empty feeling after she left. We both had a hard time in the beginning years.<\/p>\n Everything I knew changed a lot. Stephen was not only a new dad, but also a stranger trying to take on the role of my mother going ahead. When I first began, I made things harder for him.<\/p>\n Stephen, who was under a lot of pressure to do it, pointed out how angry and sad I was. On the other hand, he never left me. He was always there for me, helped me with my chores, went to school events, and listened to me when I needed to. He was there all the time.<\/p>\n Stephen would sneak into my room and say, \u201cHey, kiddo,\u201d as he looked around. \u201cHow did school today?\u201d<\/p>\n Even though I said, \u201cFine,\u201d I kept my eyes on the book I was reading. Stephen had no idea how I could deal with my sadness, and I was really missing my mother.<\/p>\n He was trying to sound happy when he said, \u201cIf you\u2019re hungry, dinner is ready.\u201d<\/p>\n I suddenly lost control and yelled, \u201cI\u2019m not hungry!\u201d \u201cI\u2019m really hungry.\u201d I call out, \u201cMom!\u201d<\/p>\n Stephen did a lot to make sure we were safe and healthy. He made sure I had everything I needed, like study tools and help with things I was interested in.<\/p>\n \u201cI am making an effort to be present, Nancy,\u201d Stephen said as a very heated argument about my curfew began. \u201cThis isn\u2019s not easy either.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cyou\u2019re not my dad!\u201d As I yelled, tears began to fall from my eyes. \u201cYou cannot tell me what to do!\u201d<\/p>\n Stephen did not change his mind, though. He was at every school event, no matter how big or small, to watch.<\/p>\n A friend said in a whisper, \u201cLook, there\u2019s Stephen,\u201d in the middle of a school play. He always gets things.<\/p>\n I did, in fact, reluctantly agree and admit. \u201cShe constantly shows up.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI have registered you for soccer camp,\u201d Stephen told me one day after giving me a registration form. I was both shocked and excited by what he said.<\/p>\n \u201cReally?\u201d As I asked, it was clear that my eyes were looking a little excited. \u201cthanks, Stephen!\u201d<\/p>\n He did all of these things even though he knew he could get paid for them. Because of his dedication, I was able to slowly take down the walls I had built around my heart. Over time, I saw him as more than just my stepfather. He was someone who really loved me. This change happened to me.<\/p>\n A few nights ago, I told Stephen, \u201cI\u2019d like to express my gratitude.\u201d<\/p>\n The answer to the question caught him off guard. \u201cFor what?\u201d ?<\/p>\n \u201cFor everything,\u201d I replied, my smile growing. \u201cYou\u2019ve been there for me even when I didn\u2019t make it easy.\u201d<\/p>\n When I was getting ready to go to college, my room was a mess of boxes and bags. I felt both happiness and sadness at the same time. I could start over when I left my city, but I also had to say goodbye to the life I had been living up until that point.<\/p>\n As soon as Stephen walked into the room, his eyes began to fill with emotion. He had an envelope in his hands and they were shaking very badly. \u201cThis is from your mother,\u201d he said, though his voice was a little weak as he spoke slowly. \u201cShe urged me to present it to you on your eighteenth birthday.\u201d<\/p>\n As I opened the mail, my heart was beating fast.<\/p>\n Hi Nancy!<\/p>\n Even though I can\u2019t be here in person, the fact that you are reading this letter means that you are now eighteen years old, which is a big milestone that I am happy to celebrate with you. To begin, I want to tell you how much I love you. You\u2019ve always been the best thing in my life, and seeing you grow has given me the most joy I\u2019ve ever known.<\/p>\n She first showed that she understood and wanted to help, and then she said something shocking. Stephen, who I thought was my husband, turned out to be my real father.<\/p>\n Stephen was shaking with fear and helplessness when he realized I was carrying you. He left because he wasn\u2019t sure how he was going to handle the duty. He came to see you about ten years ago, and I was in charge of getting you up and running. Even though those years were hard, you gave me hope and the strength to keep going.<\/p>\n One day, Stephen came back from the other side. Having a lot of regret made him ask her to forgive him. It was very important to him to be a part of my life.<\/p>\n My mother and I didn\u2019t know. There was a huge fear in her heart that I would hurt myself again. It took her a long time to decide that Stephen, not my dad, would be a better present as her new boyfriend.<\/p>\n \u201cI asked Stephen to send you this letter on your 18th birthday before I died.\u201d It was my hope that you would know the truth when you were old enough to understand. Stephen has been by your side for five years, not because he has to, but because he loves you. Because he is a good person who made a mistake, he has worked hard every day to make up for it.<\/p>\n When I was done with those words, I felt a lot of different emotions, such as relief, doubt, and anger. It\u2019s true that my stepfather was my actual father, even though I called him my stepfather earlier. Even though it was hard to understand, it made the reason for the strength of our connection clear.<\/p>\n Irises were bursting with tears of love on Stephen\u2019s face. \u201cNancy, I can give you an explanation,\u201d he said, even though his voice was shaking. \u201cPlease afford me a chance.\u201d<\/p>\n I looked at him while holding the letter in my hands. \u201cThis clarifies everything!\u201d I answered while still having a good mood. \u201cYou have always been a really good father.\u201d The fact that you are my biological father is an even more unique and amazing experience.<\/p>\n I started to remember how amazed I was. I yelled, \u201cI have something for you,\u201d and then I rushed to get his bags. They were put in the middle of the room by me. \u201cPlay down the number of things you own. \u201cWe are father and daughter starting a trip!!\u201d<\/p>\n The kids at Stephen\u2019s started to blink. He asked, \u201cWhat?\u201d with tears running down his face.<\/p>\n This is where I came up with my plan. I booked a one-week stay at an all-inclusive hotel by the sea with money from my trust fund. I did it to thank him for the work he had done. Stephen gave me a tight hug while we both had tears in our eyes.<\/p>\n This trip was meant to be special and one-of-a-kind. We could get to know each other better and enjoy each other\u2019s company before I started college. We\u2019d go swimming, hang out, and try new things together. We got this new part of our lives off to the best possible start.<\/p>\n Stephen came over one evening while we were sitting by the lake to say sorry. He said he felt bad about going and that it had caused him a lot of pain. That\u2019s why I paid attention and told him I forgive him. Even though it was hard, I knew that he had learned from his mistakes by sticking by my side for the past few years after they happened.<\/p>\n There are a lot of things that we will remember. We snorkeled, ate a great dinner on the beach, and then went out on the boat to see dolphins. The trip was great in every way. The first time I felt like we were all part of the same family was when we laughed a lot.<\/p>\n I realized that our relationship had grown to a very strong level as I thought about the trip. Stephen had changed in every way from a dad to a real parent. As I thought about my time in college, I felt like I had a sense of family and connection again.<\/p>\n Stephen has always shown unwavering love and support, which is very much appreciated. Our trip together made our friendship stronger and taught me how important it is to forgive others. When it comes to family values, I feel very lucky to have him by my side.<\/p>\n I\u2019m 43 years old, I\u2019ve never been married, and I don\u2019t have any kids. My name is Katherine. My life is peaceful, and the way things have turned out makes me pretty happy. I usually work, read, and do other things during the day, but sometimes I go for long walks in the park near my house. The crazy times I had as a teenager taught me to value the peace that this life gives me.<\/p>\n On Thursday of last week, the peace and quiet were broken quickly. When I was going through my mail, I saw an envelope that stood out among the ads and bills that I usually get. It didn\u2019t have any designs on it, but it felt very heavy. I opened it right away in the hallway because I was interested. The flash drive was the only thing there. 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My Ex-Husband\u2019s Final Gift Was a Flash Drive\u2014It Made Me Regret Divorcing Him<\/h1>\n<\/blockquote>\n
Katie\u2019s heart skipped a beat when she found a flash drive that her late ex-husband Tom had forgotten about. Tom had been her husband for a long time. The things she found while she was driving would make her feel terrible, and she would always have a soft spot for the person she had found.<\/h4>\n
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